Life does not only consist in being so good, nice, happy, etc with the other person, but being frank. I have discovered that I have actually excelled in some relationship because I was frank about them. The other person must be in suspense to anticipate what is in your mind, and this is why people keep making mistakes in relationship, especially with the opposite sex or otherwise. Being frank could as well be looked at as being true. Of course, if you had told that lady that what you wanted was sex, I suppose, the relationship wouldn’t have gone sour or broken down. The truth is, behind every action, there is a motion, and behind every motion, there is a motive. And this is what drives us in every relationship we find ourselves.
Now, on the note of being frank, what is it all about? You may ask. The world would have been a paradise if we usually bare our minds before we do anything. It could be well seen as being definitive. Being frank is an absolute stance you take as you exude your motive behind the motion in your action. It bears the true nature of your intentions. It is a combination of being honest still maintaining your integrity. When you are frank, the fear of the unknown becomes illusive; even at this point, God will begin to pay homage to your thoughts. Being frank, what a way to live life in a relationship-nothing like it.
Why should I be frank? This is another question that should bothering your mind, I presume, the reason is when your real intentions are known, two things are bound to happen; either you create doubts or eliminate doubts. For instance, if you are a lady, and your interest about a guy is money, two things are to happen; it is either he gives you the money-if he has it, or he withholds it. The truth is if you are not frank in any relationship, no matter how good your intentions are, you also stand a chance of being deceptive. This may not sound too good to you, but I am saying the truth. Any time you did not lie yet unable to tell the truth, that’s deception. You are not being frank.
Being frank, what a value and a way to live
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